[疑難求助] 你曾經是第三者嗎?

jennchl

請問有誰曾經第三者?  我愛上了一個已有女朋友的男人.TVBNOW 含有熱門話題，最新最快電視，軟體，遊戲，電影，動漫及日常生活及興趣交流等資訊。. Z5 v! r) ^, T' T
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和他做了好朋友三年, 最近大家才對大家表白, 才知道大家已經一直喜歡對方但沒有表白.tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb5 P/ e8 u' R# {  @, R
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我們深愛著對方, 可惜不知道應該怎麼辦, 他跟他的女朋友已經十三年了, 並且是同居, 我不是很樂觀, 有時候真的很想要他認真的選擇和決定, 可是我非常害怕聽到一個不想聽的答案, 所以遲遲都沒有問.
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. y- U/ R  k6 c% R) i& p, S5 y( n以前也會和他的女朋友大家成群的出去, 現在因為他的女朋友感覺到我和這男人的感覺, 所以她很討厭我, 並要這男人跟我斷絕來往.  現在我們只能用有限的時間通通電話和吃飯. 他很失落, 他說他很害怕失去我, 我亦很害怕失去他.
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jennchl

any suggestions?

guandesu

愛情沒有對錯,或許只有愛錯

十年一剑

给他限定一个时间，做出选择。

jennchl

I'm so scared of hearing the NO answer....

icceti

are you making a choice or are you letting him make the decision?tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb% q9 a+ }$ j3 e* a+ I
if you truly do not want to leave him then fight.
, N2 G4 G; x+ k$ O# jat least give it a try.  tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb( W& q/ }) D9 W  q$ U
but you can't say after a few years of being with you, he won't fall in love with someone else.www3.tvboxnow.com- \. F+ X* A* x1 i
if you are letting him decide, then give yourself a time limit so you won't be waiting for him for the rest of your life without an answer.0 d6 o' S) [  `/ E
a no is better than none.  you'll suffer even more watching them get married, have kids and you are alone by yourself.公仔箱論壇' j4 \6 n9 B3 y! Z/ l
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tommyjai

i have hear someone told that
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u should reject before it rejects u

xiehuoli

建议你退出吧

beckham07sky

Ask him to make a decision.  x7 }+ E0 C$ t; l
If he really care about lost you, he must do that.公仔箱論壇" L* B2 y, c$ o+ k" M
If not, i think you better leave this self-fish man. Don't love a man not care to your feeling.www3.tvboxnow.com. ]& g1 X# |( U
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Please don't as stupid as me before.
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dream1972

天下何处无“杂草”？何必和人争？十三年的感情，他今天能这样对他目前的女朋友，难保他十三年后“主角”换你当了，所以请三思。。。

xxx728

给他限定一个时间，做出选择。
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一針見血i agree with that
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kathy1234

其实我也和你一样~也是喜欢一个有女友了的男生~我每次听到他说他和女友出去~或陪女友而没找我~我听到会很失落~
! z0 l- F- Z' R: v但是毕竟我不是他的谁~他既然有女友了~就应该祝福他~
7 N9 J; ?0 {- f8 y0 w6 m9 a3 m公仔箱論壇不应破坏他们的感情~13年的感情不是说完就完的~
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2 f  \/ N8 `. B, N1 T1 ]你好好想吧~如果真的喜欢他~不一定要和他一起~可以祝福他啊~
+ z0 c2 _" z$ W" b4 ]  d或许我的想法与你不同~但这纯属我个人意见啦~
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勇敢点！~~