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I think Chinaman is used with derogative intonation. It is not acceptable normally for publication or editorial or opinion section of newspaper. You have used this term on "people from mainland china" in a derogative sense. (but not on yourself). This may be offensive to some.

Similarly, Hongkie is used with derogative intonation by Singaporean or Malayasian, especially used in Australia on people from Hong Kong. My only excuse is I have used a derogative term on my group of people. It is my twisted sense of humour, more or less as black people making jokes against black people is on the borderline of acceptable.

You can say that my excuse is pretty lame. If I have offended you on using Hongkie, I would apologize.
本帖最後由 GPSNYC 於 2012-1-10 12:37 AM 編輯

huit is just another pathetic moron who kept trying to convince himself to something he is truly not.

listen, while it's true that you can't pick your skin color (can't pick who gave you birth), if you're chinese, no matter which god damn nation/country you're in, you are still Chinese. That's just how it is. and if you think by being "American/British/etc" citizens will automatically turn yourself into "American/British/etc" then you are smoking crack out of your ass. Look at that "Chinese" Solider who recently killed himself in Iraq, guess what, I'm sure he "thought" he is an "American" and not "Chinese" cuz he was born in New York, but hey, he got bullied and picked on left and right in the army calling him a "Chink/Chino", and beat the crap out of him every other day. I think he got what he deserves, this is what happens when you think you're something that you never were and never will.

One thing I find funny about "Chinese" people in general is that, they love to deny their own heritage. Look at people all over the country, I live in the US so I'll take Purerto Ricans as example, no matter how many years they've become part of US territories, no matter how many years and how many generations they moved into the actual US, They STILL considered themselves to be "Purerto Ricans" and NOT "American". Same thing goes for Mexicans, Italians,etc. but CHINESE on the other hand, love to call themselves something else, as long as they're "not related to China" they are perfectly happy. but when shit happens like got bitchslapped by some other people. then they realized that they're actually Chinese, but it's often too late. Just look at that poor 19 yr old solider.

Taiwan is part of China and you know that's true. Look back in History and no one ever admit Taiwan as a country. and let's not forget what a big f-king sellouts back in days which the 國民黨 who just kept borrowing money from AMERICA to try to fuxk around in China the whole freaking time. Oh yeah.
本帖最後由 kiseki_zelda 於 2012-1-10 06:29 PM 編輯

Hihi,, damn,, i just type a very long para in chinese,, but my pc "hang gay"....
i just write in english la,, although its not very good..
I livin in Howick, yea, i understand why kiwis dun lyk chinese,, well, i m not saying tht we- HONG KONG-nese are special, but it just da fact tht sometimes wat the chinese did is unacceptable.  well,although i ve alot of chinese frd ... lol  i rmb one time, i went to movie with one of my chinese frd, she was so embarrassing!! she was eatin snack without closin her mouth,, all those "JAP JAP JAP" sounds... omg.. n she use her phone while watchin the movie... lol AND once i was at da supermarket, this chinese guy nxt to me suddenly use a SUPER LOUD voice to answer his phone,, it reali freak me  out.. lol ALSO!!  u know tht FREE swimming pool at howick ae? so many chinese go there everyday, they talk SO LOUD in the sauna room,, (which is suppose to be quiet.) all the kiwis were shocking their head,, thinkin we r reali hopeless....  geez....And I really hate those Rich chinese, (parent's money), they spent ALOT on cars, LV, GUCCI, CASINO... they never have to work one day in their life, but they act like they earn the money, they seems very proud of it... lol .....

ok, anyway,  i mean, if you r livin in a foreign country, wou;dnt it be better to be 低調?  imagine, IF in your own country, all these foreigner speaks their own language next to you and you dun understand wat r they talkin abt,, wouldnt u feel uncomfortable?  (ps: i m not saying ONLY chinese will do such things, just an example.)
popoeliz:
I think the key point is if you are ethnically Chinese, you are Chinese. No but, no if or may be...
Similarly a statement like "anyone that is not from communist china is not a Chinese" is just as absurd.
So are you saying there should be no distinction between ethnicity and nationality, regardless of an individual's personal experience, s/he is require carry any burden and stigma s/he did not create, and therefore what shapes a person's outlook in life the most is not as important as expectations set for him/her by others.

By the same token, are you suggesting that Jane Goldstein of Neutral Bay, 35, fourth-generation Jewish-Australian, athiest, chartered accountant and mother of 2, should feel the same way about Israel's occupation of Palestine, as Moshe Herschlag of Tel Aviv, Israeli Orthodox Jew, 35, engineer and father of 3? Nevermind the circumstances they grew up in, culture they were exposed to, creed, gender, occupation, all because a fundamentalist Islamic terrorist would see them as the same and kill them both, as they are both Jews by the broadest of terms? You tell me what's more absurd.

Or, if a black man from Tennessee is able to trace his ancestry back to modern-day Congo, would he suddenly refer to himself as Congolese-American? Can he be accused of "denying" his heritage all of a sudden? And yet, assimilated into the wider society as they are, do African-Americans not have their own culture evolved from their ancestors, that is very distinct from other ethnicities?

The fact of the matter is, culture is not static as the baggage you have made it out to be, it is constantly changed by the environment a group finds itself in. I've acknowledged time and time again that my heritage IS Chinese, I have never given that up, but you conveniently chose to ignore that, and continued to put me in the same pigeonhole as those that grew up in a drastically different society with vastly different values, with no clear or logical explanation other than saying what amounts to "you just ARE, so shut up" ad nauseum.

BTW 華裔 simply means "of Chinese descendance" regardless of where one is born.
A politician may say not keeping political promise is political astuteness, to me it is a lie.
e.g. The Australian Labour prime minister promised that there is no carbon tax before the election but she set up carbon tax after the election to secure a minority government with Green party.
To her it is political astuteness, to me she is a bloody liar, no if no but no may be.
Gillard blatantly, irrefutably and without any possibility of doubt LIED - there are soundbites, video clips of her making that promise on carbon tax, it was part of her re-election policies written in black and white, and in less than a year, she very openly backflipped. You are correct to call her a liar.
As for me, I don't remember making any pledge, to anybody, at any time of my life, to accept all people of my ethnicity as fraternity, and chose my associations according to my beliefs. So quite simply put, I just didn't live up to YOUR expectations, which frankly I don't give a toss about. Surely you can see the difference?

Now, GPSNYC:
I think he got what he deserves, this is what happens when you think you're something that you never were and never will.
Thank you. That pretty much sums up who the pathetic moron is. Well done, you've saved me a lot of time.

The fact that you willingly took the tragic story of someone who in his own words "wanted to live for myself not others" and blamed the victim for his death at the hands of eight unsophisticated, uneducated thugs in an environment that promotes machismo and bullying, just shows how desperate you were in twisting the facts just to make a point. Anybody who is seen to be an easy target is just as likely to fall victim to bullying whether s/he be Asian or Hispanic, or gay, or physically different and weaker than the rest. If Danny Chen were to blame in any way, it would be his naivete of human cruelty and mob mentality in the military environment, but NOT his sense of identity, given that America was all he knew.

But to shift the blame from the perpetrators of a crime to the victim is truly idiotic, akin to suggesting you deserve to be robbed because you carry money.

And you took one example from the thousands of ethnic-minority American soldiers still serving in Afghanistan and portrayed that as the norm. So, should the US Military be segregated again, or better still, just be white only, since in your book nobody else is American? The other ethnics like yourself can just sit back and enjoy the show because you're not American, you're just there to take what the American society can offer, but your allegiance is still steadfastly with China, simply because you are an ethnic Chinese. Nevermind nobody knows you there.

Essentially you are saying "you are not who you know and believe you are, but rather what others think you are, because they are (i) bigger and more powerful than you, and/or (ii)there's more of them" - that sort of mentality is typically China.
Taiwan is part of China and you know that's true. Look back in History and no one ever admit Taiwan as a country. and let's not forget what a big f-king sellouts back in days which the 國民黨 who just kept borrowing money from AMERICA to try to fuxk around in China the whole freaking time. Oh yeah.
So you want to talk about history?

When the KMT was founded, Taiwan had already been a Japanese colony for more than twenty years. The KMT had sweet fk-all to do with Taiwan until the Commies forced them there in '49, so what has the corruption of the KMT, DURING the period when it ruled China, got to do with ANYTHING? Not following your logic there mate, if there's any.

Taiwan was run as a hardline dictatorship by the KMT until well into the 80s and there had been constant resentment from the public, especially the native Taiwanese, with violent clashes and bloody massacres along the way. So the KMT did not represent the views of the Taiwanese people. If anything, Chiang Kai-shek harboured hopes of reclaiming mainland China, so KMT had always been pro-unification (and evidently, its policies today as a democratically elected government still leans towards appeasing the PRC), so, again, what's your point in bringing up the KMT? Because that's all you know?

Taiwan is not recognised as a country due to diplomatic pressure applied by China since Taiwan's expulsion from the UN in the early 70s, which, again, amounts to bullying as mentioned above. But in all practical sense it is its own country - what is more important: who are YOU to decide the fate of 20 million people given you don't even belong there, it should be up to its citizens whether it wants unification or independence. South Sudan didn't exist as a country this time last year, East Timor wasn't a country 10 years ago, just because a state wasn't an independent nation it should never be one no matter what its people believe? If we were to follow your logic then I guess the Turks should seek to regain sovereignty over the Balkan nations seeing as they were part of the Ottoman Empire about 100 years ago, that's not even as long as as when China lost Taiwan.




What is remarkable is that, despite living in the West, you're all still displaying the a lack of rationality when dealing with subjects that warrant them the most - sovereignty, ethnicity and identity, and opt instead to shout from the top of your lungs "this is absurd/pathetic", "you are a moron" and "that's just how it is" with little logical input. Ironically, these are the traits I associate the most with those I regard as the quintessential "Chinaman"
"So are you saying there should be no distinction between ethnicity and nationality, regardless of an individual's personal experience, s/he is require carry any burden and stigma s/he did not create, and therefore what shapes a person's outlook in life the most is not as important as expectations set for him/her by others. "
I am saying ethnicity as Chinese, does not mean nationality is "Chinese". (note: I think Chinese is safe to use it as ethnicity, but not nationality) Just as ethnicity being Jewish does not automatically being Israelites. I think a long of confusion and offence are related to mixing Chinese means mainland china Chinese exclusively.
I am referring to mixing ethnicity and nationality is pathetic or sad, choose your flavour or wording.
9# alex00056  

icic......trying nt to b racist here, but the problem mite b the ppl frm china, mayb, i dunno
xzblaze 發表於 2012-1-1 11:11 AM
I agree with this... it is the current generation of people from China that's hurting the country. and i also agree that once you are in a new country you should try to adopt and respect their culture and lifestyle ie dont speak in your own language in front of other people who don't speak your language. it is very dis-respectful.

I moved to NZ since i was 12 and have been here for over 20yrs and i admit there are a few idiots out there who think they are "bigger than sky" but in fact they only do things and say things against you just to make them feel better.... the best way to counter this is just to smile walk away. no point wasting energy against those people. let them know you have better things to do than let them get under your skin.
It's normal, happen everywhere, even in China too. I get used to it already
i also studied in NZ willington  , that place petty good , 5years ago i had been there , that 's not too many chinese  in WT  ,
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